Uma ufuna ukufaka injabulo eyengeziwe emisebenzini yakho yegumbi lokulala, isethi ye-BDSM ubugqila obusendaweni enamathoyizi ahlanganisiwe kungenzeka abe nje okudingayo. Lawa masethi ahlanganisa ukuvinjwa okuhlukahlukene, okufana nezimbambo zezandla, ama-ankle cuffs, kanye nezintambo zokugqilazwa, kanye ne-assortment yamathoyizi enzelwe ukuthuthukisa umuzwa wakho wokuzwa.
Ubuhle bezinzwa ezihlanganisiwe ukuthi bangabhebhethekisa izintandokazi ezahlukahlukene, noma ngabe ungumuntu ojabulela ukuthokozela ukuvinjwa noma ufuna ukuzama ukudlala kwemizwa. Lawa masethi nawo alungele abaqalayo abafuna ukucwilisa izinzwani emhlabeni we-BDSM ngaphandle kokuzizwa ekhungathekile yiminye imikhiqizo ebanzi etholakalayo.
Kulabo abajabulela umuzwa wokuvinjelwa, amathoyizi ahlanganisiwe avame ukufaka izinto ezinjengezinto zezandla, ama-ankle cuffs kanye nezintambo zokugqilazwa. Lokhu kungasetshenziselwa ukwenza amandla umlingani wakho, ukudala umuzwa wokuba sengozini kanye nokuzinikela okungavusa amaqembu nje.
Lapho usebenzisa isethi yokuvimbela ubugqila be-BDSM namathoyizi ahlanganisiwe, ukuxhumana kanye nemvume kubalulekile. Kubalulekile ukusungula imingcele kanye negama elivikelekile ngaphambi kokuzibandakanya kunoma yiluphi uhlobo lokudlala, futhi uqhubeke nokungena nomlingani wakho ukuze uqinisekise ukuthi bakhululekile futhi bayazijabulisa.
Sekukonke, ukungeza amathoyizi ahlanganisiwe emisebenzini yakho yokulala kungaletha izinga elisha lenjabulo nenjabulo ekuhlanganiseni kwakho okusondelene. Ukuthi ufuna ukuzama ukudlala kwemizwa, ukuvimba, noma inhlanganisela yazo zombili, lezi zindawo zinikeza indlela elula nehlukahlukene yokuhlola izifiso zakho futhi ujule ukuxhumana kwakho nomlingani wakho.
Ngakho-ke, uma usukulungele ukwengeza ezinye izinongo ezingeziwe empilweni yakho yothando, cabanga ukutshala imali kwi-BDSM ubugqila bokuvimbela ubugqila obusendaweni enamathoyizi ahlanganisiwe. Ungahle uthole isifiso esisha sokudlala kwemizwa nokuvinjwa okuzothatha okuhlangenwe nakho kwakho okusondele kuzinga elisha lonke.
Isikhathi Seposi: Jan-15-2024