Uma ubheke ukwengeza injabulo eyengeziwe emisebenzini yakho yekamelo lokulala, khona-ke i-BDSM isibopho sokuvimbela isethi esinamathoyizi ahlanganisiwe singase sibe yilokho okudingayo. Lawa masethi ngokuvamile ahlanganisa izinhlobonhlobo zezithiyo, ezifana nozankosi, izintambo zamaqakala, nezintambo zokubopha, kanye nezinhlobonhlobo zamathoyizi aklanyelwe ukuthuthukisa umuzwa wakho wezinzwa.
Ubuhle bamathoyizi ahlanganisiwe ukuthi angakwazi ukuhlinzekela izinhlobonhlobo zezinto ezithandwayo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ungumuntu ojabulela injabulo yokuvinjelwa noma ufuna ukuzama ukudlala ngezinzwa. Lawa masethi alungele abasaqalayo abafuna ukucwilisa izinzwane zabo emhlabeni we-BDSM ngaphandle kokuzizwa begajwe yizinhlobonhlobo zemikhiqizo etholakalayo.
Kulabo abajabulela umuzwa wokuvinjelwa, amathoyizi ahlanganisiwe ngokuvamile ahlanganisa izinto ezifana nozankosi, amaqakala, nezintambo zokubopha. Lokhu kungasetshenziswa ukuze kuvimbe umlingani wakho, kudaleke umuzwa wokuba sengozini kanye nokuzinikela okungavusa inkanuko emangalisayo kubo bobabili abathintekayo.
Uma usebenzisa i-BDSM isithiyo sokubopha esinamathoyizi ahlanganisiwe, ukuxhumana nemvume kubalulekile. Kubalulekile ukumisa imingcele kanye negama eliphephile ngaphambi kokuhlanganyela kunoma yiluphi uhlobo lokudlala, futhi uhlale uhlola nophathina wakho ukuze uqinisekise ukuthi ukhululekile futhi uyazijabulela.
Sekukonke, ukwengeza amathoyizi ahlanganisiwe emisebenzini yakho yekamelo lokulala kungaletha izinga elisha lesasasa nenjabulo ekuhlanganeni kwakho okuseduze. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ubheke ukuhlola ukudlala kwezinzwa, ukuzithiba, noma inhlanganisela yakho kokubili, lawa masethi anikeza indlela elula neguquguqukayo yokuhlola izifiso zakho futhi ujulise ukuxhumana kwakho nozakwenu.
Ngakho-ke, uma usukulungele ukwengeza izinongo ezengeziwe empilweni yakho yothando, cabanga ukutshala imali ku-BDSM isithiyo sokubopha esinamathoyizi ahlanganisiwe. Ungase uthole nje uthando olusha lokudlala ngezinzwa nokuzithiba okuzothatha ukuzizwisa kwakho okuseduze kukuyise ezingeni elisha.
Isikhathi sokuthumela: Jan-15-2024